Receiving Gifts as a Minimalist
I’m still blogging, still minimizing, but am not still 24! Yes, I just had a birthday! And with birthdays come presents, which can be challenging for a minimalist.
While I appreciate the time and money that goes into gift giving, keeping items I did not choose for myself is hard. Since I limit the items I own, I don’t want to keep those that are not exactly what I want. Along with the physical clutter, my home becomes cluttered with the guilt of not properly enjoying the gift and wanting to let it go.
Over the years, I’ve gotten much better at being a gift receiver, which really helped during this birthday. These tips may also help you if you are looking to pair down.
Just say “no”
My friends know that I am a minimalist and don’t expect gifts. I directly ask them to not get me anything. They understand that this is truly what I want, and honors my lifestyle.
Ask for what you want
When I know someone will still get me something, I offer minimalist-approved alternatives. Mostly, this includes fancy chocolate and desserts, things I consume and that won’t hang around for too long. I also may ask for experiences, such as sharing a meal.
As a way to curb my shopping, I keep a running list of things I’m considering buying to see if they are impulsive wants or things I’d actually benefit from. Around gift giving occasions I send this list to my family, boyfriend, etc. This way they can get me something they know I’ll love, saving us both a hassle.
Express gratitude and part ways when necessary
If I receive a gift I do not want, I express sincere gratitude. However, I do not hold on to gifts out of guilt. That would not be a gift, would it? The best thing I can do is find that item a better home and move on. I remain unwilling to sacrifice the peace of simplicity out of a sense of obligation.
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